Treasure in Heaven

BALANCE: Grace & Truth
The truth is that God hates divorce. Life-long, monogamous union was His plan from the beginning. But grace needs to be extended even to the sinning party. Take the encounter between Jesus and the Samaritan woman recorded in John Chapter 4 as an example. Jesus began that conversation with grace, addressed the truth about this woman’s marital status (she was currently living with a man to whom she was not married), and then concluded with grace. It’s a winning formula. Grace plus truth. Truth plus grace. “Grace and truth came through Jesus Christ” (John 1:17).
Jesus was the grace giving, truth telling Messiah of Israel, the Saviour of the world. He was able to confront sin and error, but always do so with grace. He was able to call out the destructive patterns of sin in people’s lives while modeling grace in their brokenness. I’m eternally thankful that God knows how to balance grace and truth. As Tim Keller recently tweeted, “Truth without love really isn’t truth. Love without truth really isn’t love. They have to be together.”
In practical terms, balancing grace and truth means to “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15). If all we do is affirm what others claim without bothering to tell them the truth, we have not in fact followed Jesus’ example and teaching. On the other hand, if all we do is correct others without loving them, we have fallen short of what the Lord desires for us.
So, how does one know if they are achieving the balance of grace and truth? The answer is quite simple. Tension. If you feel delight in telling others their faults, you probably are not experiencing grace. If on the other hand you feel disappointed in yourself that you did not say what needed to be said, you have probably compromised truth. Relationship cannot be achieved without the freedom to speak the truth in a culture of grace. Marriages are not apt to survive without the beautiful blend of truth and grace.
My prayer for you this week church family is that you will personally experience and freely share grace and truth. In this way you are a follower of Jesus.